You would like to get pregnant but it just does not happen. After a year or two, it is time to think things through and change something in your life in order to improve the probability of success when trying to get pregnant.
Changes In Lifestyle
If you could choose freely and without constraints, what would your life look like!?
For instance, if your husband commutes 3 hours every day and stays away from home for 11 or 12 hours in a row, that obviously sucks. Can he switch to some better job, or can you? If you had a child already, could one of you become a “stay at home†parent? When you become pregnant, will you go to work or not at all?
If you already have your personal horoscopes delineated, you can use those as a blueprint to see what kind of life would you ideally lead.
Check Your Living Quaters
Before you get pregnant and in order to increase your chances of getting pregnant at all, assess the place where you live from the energy point of view. Are you sleeping well? If one of you is sleeping well and the other is not, maybe there are some bad influences around: check for electric wires around the bed, any kind of electric, electromagnetic or material poisonning and so on.
If you are living in a vertical building, ask your neighbours where they sleep and if they sleep in the same relative position within the flat as you do, ask further are the sleeping well, are they having any kind of problems and so on. If several people are sleeping on the same vertical in one building and are having similar problems, odds are that you should do something about it:
-- Change the place where you sleep,
-- install some kind of protection (crystals, space cleaning, Reiki treatments for space etc.)
Start Living Healthier
Try to stop as many addictions in your life as you can. That means sugar, alcohol, drugs (both “recreationalâ€, “real ones†and pharmaceutical remedies), finally, stop smoking at all costs. If you are on any kind of long term treatment drugs, see if you can halt them, or at least ask the doctor what to do with those drugs when you become pregnant.
Letting go off of smoking would be just fantastic, since even if only one party in the house smokes, everybody living in it will be eventully be full of it. Why bother getting pregnant, giving birth and all that, only to systematically poison your own child with fumes!?
Consider what you eat, how and when you eat it. Is it healthy already, or can you do one better and choose better food, more natural, prepared with less refinements and so on!?
Losing weight also increases your chances of getting pregnant. Most women will get more weight during the pregnancy, why not start lower on the scale from the very beginning? You heart will bless you for that wise move!
Cut out all distractions before going to bed, especially watching TV and surfing the Internet. Go to bed earlier, get more sleep now because once you start nursing who knows when will you get sleep again!
Anti stress, anti ageing, wellness, moderate physical activity all increase your chances of getting pregnant. Invest in yourself, now’s the time, before you actually get pregnant!
Changes In Sexual Life
For most couples, that will mean more sex, more regular sex, and lots of it! More sex equates to more chances of getting pregnant, however, there is one notable exception. When there is an influence of Uranus in one or more charts, less frequent sex gives better chances of conceiving. It is unlikely to know such things without astrology, which is the raison d’etre of this site.
For procreation, best sexual positions are those that allow man to ejaculate as close as possible to the cervix. Ejaculation after a deep penetration is the key, because the spermatosoids then have to travel less. Some missionary positions will allow for that, as will the “doggy†position, in which the male is penetrating from behind, the way most couples in animal kingdom do.
Sex without offspring can lead to change of partners. That will be clearly seen from the composite horoscope, however, the complete astrological discussion of who will be leaving whom and when, is beyond this article. Males are especially apt to find a new partner “to make baby toâ€; nothing personal in most cases, it is just their animal urge that is urging to them to have children.
Pre Infertility Treatments
If one of the partners is ill and it clearly stands in way of getting pregnant, then that ailment should be resolved first. If she has endometriosis, myoma in the uterus, PCOS, anything abnormal about her hormones etc. has to be remedied first. There are cases in which a woman has, say myoma in uterus, but still the pregnancy ends up normally, but these will always be in the minority.
Do what you can to improve yourself before you meet the right guy, say “I do†and start “making a babyâ€.
Infertility Treatments
If not, then you will have the privilege of him walking with you side by side, through your little personal hell. At this stage, everything is accepted, from severe drugs, unpleasant surgeries, up to IVF. It is in this stage, couples turn to alternative infertility treatments, such as medical astrology, homeopathy, herbal and flower remedies, acupuncture, Reiki and so on. Most of these treatments can be done simultaneously, and the key is to be objective. Whatever method that you use, it must be measureable and verifiable. Even if you are fed up with doctors, still use them to measure those fibroids of yours!
Do You Need to Change Your Lifestyle In Order to Have a Baby?
Some children are conceived without any plan or afterthought. Most children are here because their parents wanted them very much; such couples usually treasure memories of those months when sex was everywhere. Some try and don’t make it within a year or two and this article is here to help them reorganize and increase their chances of getting pregnant.
